So last night was a rough one. Getting a ride home from your ex is more like playing the blame game til your blue in the face. You did this, you did that, you said this, you said that. Rehashing the hurt is not healthy and we all know that but we still play this game. Eventually you have to get out of the car and no one is happy and you feel like this emotional mess all over again.
Some things aren't meant to be, some people are not going to make each other happy, I know that. But wouldn't it be nice if there was a disclosure when you 1st start a relationship that says "Warning! This could end in disaster and you will be very unhappy for an undetermined amount of time!" I wonder if even that would deter us? Would we keep trying just because we want that shining moment of happiness that is promised to us thru our fairytales or classic love stories? Who wrote that crap anyway? Did they write a sequel to what will happen after the characters fall out of love and how they go about divvying up there assets?
I don't want to be bitter or angry because I know in my heart this is for the best and if it was meant to be (corny alert!) then as a couple petty little issues would've been worked out and love would prevail. Some endings are not happy and beginnings are very scary but we have no choice but to keep moving.
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