Thursday, February 25, 2010

Day 56 of Singledom

I love going out with people who don't have that filter in their brain that says when shit they say is totally inappropriate and when they need to stop talking. I have this guy friend who provides me with comic relief to a point. Then he just gets nasty and needs to go home, he has a 4 beer minimum. Think we need to change it to 3 because he got way outta hand last night with his over the top comments. He manages to offends every race, gender and probably an animal or two each time we go out. Funny thing though is when no one is around he can actually manage to be a pretty decent person, but that side doesn't normally make an appearance. It is always fun to talk with people and remember all the stupid shit you did and survived.

We went to People's Lounge for Tapas, extremely good and filling with one of the greatest Sangria's I've had in awhile. Then walked over to Salud where I shamelessly flirted with the hot, married bartender. He always serves us there and I have met his wife so it's all good fun and gets him a better tip, he knows what his he's doing. Smart man, using his looks to get the girls drooling and taking that money home to his wife. I need to start looking for a second job, bartending is the logical choice since that is one of my many trades and they are always hiring. It's lonely doing that job and not having anyone to come home to though.

Speaking of which I went to The Ex house last night, of course, cocktails and texing equals what people? Well... always nice to have someone there even if it isn't long term, the key is remembering that.

1 comment:

  1. The key is to your own heart be true .
    Have you ever watched the show Bad Girls? Well I think they have an opening for you on it. You seem to know what you think you'd like but you are wavering and accepting what you think you won't regret giving up later..such as your time, your years, your youth, your sincerity in a relationship...no one is that strong that they can play both sides of the fence and not get splintered....one day you are single and the next day you are part of a set of silverware....(spooning with Mr Knife) .
    As a female I just feel when we give a man all these confusing signals we eventually get confused our own self. Of course you know what your doing and so let me not lecture any further....I'll say this though, I'm someone's old lady because I chose to be here and it was either here or out there really being single..(and probably end up dieing of aids cause that's what kind of fun this old lady would have been having) for me there is no shame in admitting where you came from unless you have definite plans of returning and playing all the dangerous games in the book. All things come with a price. Freedom, Relationships and being Single as well as being a smart Single person...very hard work but some do manage to do it.....class dismissed.

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